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Up in Smoke! Time to Quit that Nagging Habit

October 11, 2019 5 Comments
Up in Smoke! Time to Quit that Nagging Habit

Is your loved one’s habit making you miserable? I’m the worst kind of reformed smoker but only when it’s my partner who’s smoking. Time to quit the nagging!

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Burnout, depression - Recovery, Mental health, Wellbeing

It will be okay

September 17, 2019 9 Comments
Reflections - dreams

Dreams are funny things. Don’t you find that your most vivid dreams occur when you’re going through big changes and upheavals in your life?

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The best things in life are scary – Why I joined an Artist’s Way work group but took my time showing up

September 11, 2019 20 Comments

Why did I keep putting off interacting with the Artist’s Way group in Zoom meetings? Perhaps it was hard to believe I was a ‘real’ artist.

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Lifestyle, Mental health, Slow down, Wellbeing, You are enough - really, you are!

The Artist’s Way and 3 Reasons to Read it

September 4, 2019 25 Comments

A springboard for spirituality, a tool for transition: open the pages of The Artist’s Way for your life to improve. Here are 3 things they’ve taught me.

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Reconnect with your inner child to have more fun… but who is she (or he)?

August 21, 2019 20 Comments
Fun fair - connect with your inner child

Fancy a bit more fun? Then find your inner child. Remember what you used to like doing as a kid and do it again. But I found out that it’s not that simple.

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We’re all gonna die and it’s not your fault!

July 29, 2019 27 Comments

Death… a taboo subject yet the one certainty we are all born with. We’re all gonna die… When family members brush with death how do you deal with it?

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An unlikely Warrior Woman – Stepping towards Homecoming

July 10, 2019 17 Comments
An Unlikely Warrior Woman

Lessons from Nicky Clinch’s Seven Day Warrior Woman Challenge and her Homecoming programme: strength in vulnerability, everything you need is already within and more.

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Add the ‘Extra’ to your ‘Ordinary’ – Four activities to build connection, get creative, cultivate gratitude and unleash your silly side

July 1, 2019 14 Comments
Add the 'extra' to your 'ordinary' - Four activities to build connection, get creative, cultivate gratitude and unleash your silly side

Four little projects which are free and easy, each with big results: add meaning to your life and open up your mindset, inviting you to see the world just a little bit differently.

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I hugged a tree (and I liked it)

June 21, 2019 33 Comments

I never saw myself as a tree hugger. A nature lover, yes… but hugging a tree was just too conkers bonkers! Here is how I ended up hugging my first tree.

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A friend in need… probably needs a friend

June 6, 2019 21 Comments
A friend in need... probably needs a friend

A friend in need ‘A friend in need is a friend indeed’, but what does that even mean? I have always found it a little contradictory. Surely it should be the other way around. Something like, ‘A friend who is there when you are in need, is a friend indeed’. Not quite the same ring, […]

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Eilidh Horder and Suki the cat on shoulder B&W

Hi! I'm Eilidh, a recovering perfectionist and people pleaser, lucky enough to spend lots of time with my two children (who, incidentally, have superpowers), two cats, Fido the Romanian rescue dog, and our new additions, three little rats.

The aim of this emotional and mental health blog is to share my experiences and reach out to others who might relate - a little reminder that we are not alone 🥰

Let’s talk about finding deeper meaning, peace, acceptance and self-knowledge. Love is all!

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If only we knew then what we know now!

I'm preparing a piece for my blog which has gone a bit quiet (been juggling 'home-schooling', looking for work, doing the work, moving to a new country during a pandemic & living in an (rather awesome & perfect location) AirB&B, all the usual stuff 🤣). 

💙 I miss my blog so maybe you could help me out by answering one question - and I'll use your answers in the next piece! 💙

🤔 If you were to meet your younger self... and could give one piece of advice... what would it be? 🤔

👇 Answers in the comments 👇please (I'll go first)... ✨✨✨

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